Dating your ex girlfriends sister
Still, I could never imagine doing that to my sister. She's not married or anything now but I know that, if she was, I would never ever go after her ex husband. I think the issue is the OP would regret it for the rest of his life if he doesn't pursue it.
Sounds like he's been obsessing about her for two years already. If the answers to both questions are "yes," then let her make her own decisions.
Having a plan gives you a sense of direction and removes all the confusion. However, for those of you that don’t like reading too much, here’s a shorter version of the article.
A plan will give you something to look forward to when you are feeling down and unsure about yourself. (Although, it is highly recommended that you read this entire article and the comment section.
Or, she may have seemed strong and independent in your relationship, but texted you 1000 times per day after you broke up with her.
When you break up, you get the rare opportunity to see your ex’s true nature at the worst of times.
My dilemma is this would destroy their relationship should I pull it off. We haven't acted on it as yet due to the weirdness of the situation. The sister should tell you "Hell no." There is no way I'd take my sister's sloppy seconds. How do you love her sister when you don't know her yet? The obvious is that it's a pretty messed up situation and it's going to cause tons of trouble. It's up to you whether you want to get into that situation.And during this state of confusion, you are bound to make a lot of mistakes that will actually hurt your chances of getting back together.I have seen people make these mistakes over and over again (in my five years of experience helping people with breakups). I highly recommend you read the entire article because it will not only help you understand what you should do but also why you should do it.It will change the way you see your breakup and will give you a very detailed plan to follow.So , two years after a longterm relationship turned to shit I find myself interested in her sister. It's about how it will effect her and her relationship wit her family. I kinda do care but at the same time she floats my boat in so many ways. I don't want that but nor do I want to spend my life comparing other prospects to her because nobody has come close thus far. People get caught up and infatuated in other people all the time, and often they make stupid decisions due to impaired judgement. Although that is playing with fire while running with scissors too. My sister's hubby is cool, handsome, gentlemanly, and tons of good things, but hooking up with him would feel like hooking up with a brother. I knocked her back but now almost two years later we have been talking daily and meet for lunch on weekends.